Can I marry a Manglik girl if I’m not one? Is the Mangal Dosha sign real?

First of all let me clarify that being Manglik is not a dosha.

Well, bollywood star couple Abhishek Bachchan & Aishwarya Rai in which Aishwarya Rai is Manglik.

Manglik is just a planetary position whereby in some constraints are being put for marriage compatability in one’s person life.

Let’s first understand, who is a Manglik?

A person is manglik ,if his/her Mars is sitting in 1st, 4th, 7th, 8th and 12th house in his birth chart.

What is nature Mars?

Nature of Mars-

1-Mara is Energy.

2-Mars is Arguement.

3-Mars is Passion.

4-Mars is Domination.

5-Mars is Soldier.

6-Mars takes Responsibility

When Mars aspect or sits in 7th house in a person’s lagana chart, then we can see his/her nature in their married life. If Mars is well placed then it will lighten up your married life with happiness. But if this mars is wrongly placed, then this can destroy your married life.

What is a well-placed Mars?

1. If Mars is lord of 7th house and also has its aspect on 7th house.
2. If Mars and Jupiter are sitting together.
3. If Mars is sitting with Mercury.
4. If Venus has its aspect on 7th house without sitting with Mars or either aspected by Mars.
5. If Jupiter is aspecting 7th house.

Characterstic of Person with Well-Placed Mars

A person with well-placed is a responsible spouse. He/ She will all efforts to solidify the marriage. Person will argument for the betterment of married life and fight to protect married life from all evil eyes. The person will be sexual and passionate in love making and this will be only limited to his/her partner.

What is ill-placed Mars?

1. If Mars is sitting with Rahu or Ketu
2. If Mars is sitting with Sun.
3. If Mars is sitting with Saturn.
4. If Mars is sitting with Venus.
5. Rahu or Ketu or Sun is aspecting 7th house.

Characterstic of Person with ill-placed Mars

A person with ill placed mars is irresponsible spouse. He will give efforts to disrespect his spouse. He will do violence. He will ditch spouse because of uncontrolled sexual desire.

As per my research, learning from ancient texts and studies, following are the remedies-

1. This person should marry after the age of 28.
2. This person should win over his anger and negative argumentative nature by doing meditation of the diety depends upon his chart.
3. This person should marry a person whose chart is bringing balance to his mind.

So, to the answer that a manglik person to a marry a non manglik is perfectly fine if certain remedies/upayas are performed.

and yes, looking at the charts is a tricky business. Always consult a professional astrologer.